This is just my little rant and hardly anyone will even read this but this is just a few things I feel needs to be said to the Penellos. This is the ugly side of having a close-knit family like ours. We eventually learn everyone's "buttons" and start pushing them. Yes I know I hardly talk in the chat but I do watch so I know a little about what's going on. Yes we are a family and so we are there to help each other through hard times. But that is NOT something to be taking advantage of as some of us have been doing of late. Yes we all have problems and, believe it or not, others people's problems are bigger and more important, at the time, than our own. We Penellos give everything our all so while your problem might seem important to you we might be helping someone else out at the time. While sometimes is a case of first come first served. That does NOT give you the right to call everyone's attention off of helping someone else just to focus on you. While your problem might even be legitimately bigger you don't get to belittle someone else's while we are working on helping them out. Speaking of helping others it's starting to drain on not only myself but on other family members when you just have problem after problem or the same problem time and time again. We can't help you if you aren't willing to help yourself. It is up to you to want to make things better for yourself and sometimes if you just take a step back and look at what's troubling you in the first place you might be able to fix it yourself instead of throwing every little thing at our feet. Another thing I want to bring up is yes while we are a family we WILL still have disagreements on things. The main thing tho is to say your peace and then drop it. Quit bringing up things time and time again it just makes things awkward and makes everyone uncomfortable. For those who didn't read all that what I'm trying to say is
1. If all your ganna bring is negativity then don't come to the stream. Or just watch and don't say anything.
2. We all have problems and we are glad to help each other out but please don't interrupt while we are helping someone else. By drawing attention to yourself believe me someone noticed that you have a problem too and will help you out as soon as they/we can.
3. If you disagree with anything then say your option and be done with it. Do not keep bringing it up
4. If you do offend someone say you're sorry but don't over apologize.
The stream is a place to have fun and just escape the troubles of the world if even for a short time. Yes there are times then it can't be all fun and games but still if we just left our negativity at the door. We might be able to return things to how they once were.
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